Unsent · Free
Write unsent messages to your ex
Unsent is a private place to write everything you want to say to your ex. It's saved privately, never sent.
What Unsent does
- Looks like a message thread, but nothing ever leaves the app.
- Starters help you begin: “I wish…”, “I never said…”, “It hurt when…”.
- Messages are grouped by day, encrypted and synced only between your devices.
- Delete everything at any time.
How it works
- 1Open Unsent from the menu, or after breathing.
- 2Write what you want to say.
- 3Tap “Keep here”. It stays, unsent.
Questions
Why write unsent letters to an ex?
Writing it out lets you say what you feel without the risk of reopening contact. Many people find the urge to send fades once the words are out.
Can my ex ever see my unsent messages?
No. Unsent messages are never sent to anyone. They're encrypted and only sync between your own devices.
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Silent Era is a self-help companion, not therapy. If you are in crisis, contact local emergency services or a crisis line.